In another short but extremely important post for you today, I am going to discuss how to “get your mind right” to be a success.  Quite frankly, if you do not achieve the correct frame of mind before you start your efforts, you may as well just run a cash register at ChinaMart.

What do I mean by having your mind right?

Well, there are several parts to this.

You have to have confidence that your undertakings will “pan out”.

As mentioned previously, few successes are made without trial and error.

You must:

• have confidence in your ability to work through initial difficulties.
• persevere through the tough times.

One important and very difficult part of this is that you may have to disassociate yourself from friends or relatives who undercut your efforts.

If someone is constantly deriding your ideas or your ability to enact those plans, it may be necessary to “give them their walking papers”.  Certainly, you should discuss the situation first and try to help that person or persons to see how his or her negative attitude could be harming your chance to fulfill your dreams.  Hope that person will decide to be a part of the solution rather than remaining a part of the problem but let there be no mistake: you need to surround yourself with positive persons.  Constructive criticism is exactly that… constructive; if someone derides and ridicules you… kick them to the curb.

One last thing…

Begin a program of self-affirmations.  This will improve your self-confidence.

Improved self-confidence will surely help you to “hang in there” as you build your business but it is also going to help you become more successful immediately.

You must have confidence in yourself if anyone else is going to have confidence in you.   If someone is going to purchase anything from you, that person has to have confidence in your product by having confidence in you.

You know what your own vulnerable areas are.  Write your own affirmations based on what you know your vulnerabilities are.  Your subconscious mind has far greater ramifications upon your life than you may realize.  Negative things said to us in childhood and over the courses of our lives can cause us to have a lack of confidence in our abilities to succeed.  By using self-affirmations, you can begin to reverse any negative internal talk you may have and may begin to build confidence in yourself.  It helps me.  I believe it can help you.

These statements may seem simplistic but I believe they can be effective.  Such things should be repeated to yourself each morning and each night.  Most importantly, repeat your affirmations to yourself when you start to have negative thoughts about yourself; use them as a pattern interrupt to break any pattern of negative thinking and self-doubt that you have have.

I am a confident man.

I have a competent plan.

I will persevere through tough times and turn them into wonderful times.

I will learn from experience and apply that learning to build a better tomorrow.

I will be a better man today than I was yesterday.  I will be better still tomorrow.

I am smart.

I am confident.

I have a great destiny.

I am worthy of success.

I am worthy of love.

Hmm… I fell better just having typed those things.

Repeat your self-affirmations.

Be your self-affirmations.

To your success…

Tom